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Feb. 21st, 2026 03:51 pm
marginaliana: From above, Crowley and Aziraphale shaking hands on the park bench (Good Omens - on the bench)
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Have been thinking about this both due to visiting a friend's place and due to looking at my own sofa.

Presuming that you are a household of at least two people who share a sofa and sit on different ends regularly enough to establish butt patterns...

Poll #34248 butts, lol
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Are your butt dent patterns different?

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yes, easily attributable to sitting pattern or weight, etc
3 (100.0%)

yes but not sure why
0 (0.0%)

not particularly
0 (0.0%)

we don't have consistent ends of the sofa
0 (0.0%)



I definitely squash the cushions (butt and back) more than my wife and I have no idea why. Periodically we flip the cushions to the other side so that mine aren't flat all the time.

Also, I put in 'we don't have consistent ends of the sofa' as a poll option because I'm always surprised that some people don't live in patterns the way I live in patterns but not having sofa sitting patterns is an insane idea to me, for the record.

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Feb. 18th, 2026 08:19 am
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We have started watching films with father-in-law.

Certain criteria: they can't be too long (he has very firm opinions about films which are over two hours), must be brightly light so he has a chance of seeing something on the screen, cannot be subtitled for obvious reasons, and have to be dialogue-heavy.

Father-in-law is a good person to watch films with, bit of a film bugg with eclectic & wide-ranging tastes. In the past he's been my go-to person for arthouse films, and we may try that again, but not just yet.

Films at home work because we can pause when something needs the extra explainy. Father-in-law has tried audio-descriptions previously and disliked them intensely ("they explain the bits I don't need explained") so we'll not do that again.

Films we've seen so far:

  • Clueless (we were talking about Jane Austen adaptions and this is the best one)
  • Galaxy Quest (it's the best Star Trek film, and Bryan has never seen it)
  • Legally Blonde I (one of H's favourite films. Bryan enjoyed it, but now wants a rest from college / high-school films)
  • Wake Up Dead Man (I hadn't seen it. This worked well - lots of talking, and Daniel Craig having fun)
  • Gun Crazy (1950s 'Bonnie & Clyde' noir. Bryan suggested this one when we were talking about romantic Valentine movies)

I'd love to show him The Menu because he'd really enjoy the comedy horror piss-take of celebrity restaurant scene, but a lot of the action takes place in the dark as a murderous chef chases people around a tiny island so I think that's out.

On my list for future watching:

  • Conclave
  • Bringing Up Baby
  • Gosford Park
  • Spirited Away (he saw My Neighbor Totoro with me last year & loved it)

Suggestions welcome.

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Feb. 13th, 2026 08:31 am
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Blue badge arrived this morning, and father-in-law and I are both excited. It's going to be easier to find parking spaces when I take Bryan somewhere instead of driving round & round and doing that mental arithmetic for "how far can he walk today?"

We also got a phone-call from the vision support team, and next Thursday someone is coming to demonstrate electronic magnifiers. We have many handhelp magnifiers and Bryan can use them to read large print one word at a time, but it's hard work for him. We're still hoping that some way of reading can be found.

Vision support have recommended applying for attendance allowance, so that's another thing for my list.

Thinking about walking - I have a new-found appreciation for bubble paving. It is so helpful having the road crossing marked, especially when there is a dropped kerb. I feel as if I should drop someone a thank-you note.

Today we are going to Compton Verny to see the exhibition on The Shelter of Stories. We've found that Bryan can still enjoy art exhibitions - I just have to do a lot of narrating.
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Back in August of 2025, we announced a temporary block on account creation for users under the age of 18 from the state of Tennessee, due to the court in Netchoice's challenge to the law (which we're a part of!) refusing to prevent the law from being enforced while the lawsuit plays out. Today, I am sad to announce that we've had to add South Carolina to that list. When creating an account, you will now be asked if you're a resident of Tennessee or South Carolina. If you are, and your birthdate shows you're under 18, you won't be able to create an account.

We're very sorry to have to do this, and especially on such short notice. The reason for it: on Friday, South Carolina governor Henry McMaster signed the South Carolina Age-Appropriate Design Code Act into law, with an effective date of immediately. The law is so incredibly poorly written it took us several days to even figure out what the hell South Carolina wants us to do and whether or not we're covered by it. We're still not entirely 100% sure about the former, but in regards to the latter, we're pretty sure the fact we use Google Analytics on some site pages (for OS/platform/browser capability analysis) means we will be covered by the law. Thankfully, the law does not mandate a specific form of age verification, unlike many of the other state laws we're fighting, so we're likewise pretty sure that just stopping people under 18 from creating an account will be enough to comply without performing intrusive and privacy-invasive third-party age verification. We think. Maybe. (It's a really, really badly written law. I don't know whether they intended to write it in a way that means officers of the company can potentially be sentenced to jail time for violating it, but that's certainly one possible way to read it.)

Netchoice filed their lawsuit against SC over the law as I was working on making this change and writing this news post -- so recently it's not even showing up in RECAP yet for me to link y'all to! -- but here's the complaint as filed in the lawsuit, Netchoice v Wilson. Please note that I didn't even have to write the declaration yet (although I will be): we are cited in the complaint itself with a link to our August news post as evidence of why these laws burden small websites and create legal uncertainty that causes a chilling effect on speech. \o/

In fact, that's the victory: in December, the judge ruled in favor of Netchoice in Netchoice v Murrill, the lawsuit over Louisiana's age-verification law Act 456, finding (once again) that requiring age verification to access social media is unconstitutional. Judge deGravelles' ruling was not simply a preliminary injunction: this was a final, dispositive ruling stating clearly and unambiguously "Louisiana Revised Statutes §§51:1751–1754 violate the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution, as incorporated by the Fourteenth Amendment of the U.S. Constitution", as well as awarding Netchoice their costs and attorney's fees for bringing the lawsuit. We didn't provide a declaration in that one, because Act 456, may it rot in hell, had a total registered user threshold we don't meet. That didn't stop Netchoice's lawyers from pointing out that we were forced to block service to Mississippi and restrict registration in Tennessee (pointing, again, to that news post), and Judge deGravelles found our example so compelling that we are cited twice in his ruling, thus marking the first time we've helped to get one of these laws enjoined or overturned just by existing. I think that's a new career high point for me.

I need to find an afternoon to sit down and write an update for [site community profile] dw_advocacy highlighting everything that's going on (and what stage the lawsuits are in), because folks who know there's Some Shenanigans afoot in their state keep asking us whether we're going to have to put any restrictions on their states. I'll repeat my promise to you all: we will fight every state attempt to impose mandatory age verification and deanonymization on our users as hard as we possibly can, and we will keep actions like this to the clear cases where there's no doubt that we have to take action in order to prevent liability.

In cases like SC, where the law takes immediate effect, or like TN and MS, where the district court declines to issue a temporary injunction or the district court issues a temporary injunction and the appellate court overturns it, we may need to take some steps to limit our potential liability: when that happens, we'll tell you what we're doing as fast as we possibly can. (Sometimes it takes a little while for us to figure out the exact implications of a newly passed law or run the risk assessment on a law that the courts declined to enjoin. Netchoice's lawyers are excellent, but they're Netchoice's lawyers, not ours: we have to figure out our obligations ourselves. I am so very thankful that even though we are poor in money, we are very rich in friends, and we have a wide range of people we can go to for help.)

In cases where Netchoice filed the lawsuit before the law's effective date, there's a pending motion for a preliminary injunction, the court hasn't ruled on the motion yet, and we're specifically named in the motion for preliminary injunction as a Netchoice member the law would apply to, we generally evaluate that the risk is low enough we can wait and see what the judge decides. (Right now, for instance, that's Netchoice v Jones, formerly Netchoice v Miyares, mentioned in our December news post: the judge has not yet ruled on the motion for preliminary injunction.) If the judge grants the injunction, we won't need to do anything, because the state will be prevented from enforcing the law. If the judge doesn't grant the injunction, we'll figure out what we need to do then, and we'll let you know as soon as we know.

I know it's frustrating for people to not know what's going to happen! Believe me, it's just as frustrating for us: you would not believe how much of my time is taken up by tracking all of this. I keep trying to find time to update [site community profile] dw_advocacy so people know the status of all the various lawsuits (and what actions we've taken in response), but every time I think I might have a second, something else happens like this SC law and I have to scramble to figure out what we need to do. We will continue to update [site community profile] dw_news whenever we do have to take an action that restricts any of our users, though, as soon as something happens that may make us have to take an action, and we will give you as much warning as we possibly can. It is absolutely ridiculous that we still have to have this fight, but we're going to keep fighting it for as long as we have to and as hard as we need to.

I look forward to the day we can lift the restrictions on Mississippi, Tennessee, and now South Carolina, and I apologize again to our users (and to the people who temporarily aren't able to become our users) from those states.
marginaliana: Simon on Numberwang wearing "I am from space" shirt. (Simon is from space)
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Various:

--Mental health quite bad recently, but am persevering.

--An allegedly Australian phrase I learned today: "I'm so hungry I could eat the arse of a low-flying pigeon."

--Am writing about 6 fics simultanously, which is very pleasing to my self-identity as 'person who writes things,' but one of them involves a lot of subject matter that is perhaps not great for the mental health as per above. If I finish it then I will be done with it? It's so close to done.

--Have had a song stuck in my head for days due to this frankly magnificent Festivid:

ASSHOLE (197 words) by cupidsbow
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Looney Tunes | Merrie Melodies, Multi-Fandom
Rating: Teen And Up Audiences
Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings
Relationships: Bugs Bunny/Daffy Duck (Looney Tunes), Bugs Bunny & Daffy Duck (Looney Tunes)
Characters: Daffy Duck (Looney Tunes), Bugs Bunny (Looney Tunes), Tasmanian Devil (Looney Tunes), Elmer Fudd, Porky Pig (Looney Tunes), Marvin the Martian (Looney Tunes), Yosemite Sam (Looney Tunes)
Additional Tags: Talking Animals, Animation, Comedy, Slapstick, Pranks and Practical Jokes, Fanvids
Series: Part 62 of cupidsbow's fanvids
Summary:

I'd like to sing a song about the American Dream.

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